Hi!!! I'm Bruce! This is my label hoard :] This is mainly for my friends to see but maybe this could help you find a label so feel free to look if I don't know you! The different categories are pretty self explanatory lol. Enjoy your look around!! (≧▽≦)
Main labels
Gay/Vincian
Men & enbies exclusively attracted to other men & enbies
Transgender/Transmasculine
Transgender: Identifying as a gender other than your assigned gender at birth.
Transmasculine: Transitioning to be masculine, most often people who are AFAB who are transitioning to male or masculine nonbinary
Aromantic
Experiencing little to no romantic attraction
Polyamorous
Dating multiple people at once, with all parties involved consenting and aware of other people involved
Enboy
Someone who identifies as nonbinary and a boy/man/male. This could mean being genderflux/fluid between male and nonbinary, or being simultaneously nonbinary and male, like bigender or demiboy.
Genderqueer
A gender that does not follow binary gender norms
Ay'lonit
A Jewish cultural gender where one was identified as a female at birth, but develops male characteristics later in life. Used by both Jewish trans mascs and intersex Jews. Flag by bigfootrights on Tumblr, edited to be in the proper aspect ratio by me
Nonbinary
A gender that isn't strictly male or female; outside of the gender binary
Polysexual
Being attracted to more than two but not all genders. I use polysexual and gay simultaneously to clarify that I am also attracted to nonbinary people, as my attraction only really excludes binary women.
Intersex
When someone's biological sex isn't strictly male or female because of external sexual anatomy, internal sexual anatomy, chromosomal abnormalities in the sex chromosomes, or hormones
Not main labels
Demiromantic
Only experiencing romantic attraction after a strong bond has been formed. Alternative demiromantic flag designed by imoga-pride on Tumblr
Incubian
A xenogender related to incubi. This gender may have masculine and seductive energies, and is intended to be used by those with sexual religious trauma and/or hypersexuality.
Egogender
A gender that is unique the person experiencing it, a gender which is so personal to someone that they can only describe it as "me"-gender. No two egogender individuals have the same gender, although they have the same gender label.
If that's confusing wording: My gender is so complicated and vast and personal I feel like I'm the only person who has the same gender as me. Sure, other people can use the same labels as me, but my experience with my gender is unique to me and me alone.
Cupioromantic/Cupiroflux
Cupioromantic: Someone who does not experience romantic attraction/is on the aromantic spectrum and wants a romantic relationship
Cupiroflux: When someone desires and/or likes the idea of a romantic relationship but their level of attraction/desire for the relationship fluctuates
Dreadromantic
A romantic orientation that fluctuates from feeling no romantic attraction to feeling romantic attraction, where the romantic attraction is usually accompanied by a strong feeling of dread or anxiety.
Nebularomantic
Being unable to distinguish the difference between romantic and platonic attraction. In the case of nebularomantic individuals, that is due to one's status as neurodivergent.
Offboy
A gender most closely related to male, but not male. Similar to the way off-white isn't exactly white.
Idemromantic
Being able to categorize relationships and feelings as platonic or romantic based on outside factors, but experiencing no notable internal differences between platonic and romantic feelings. An idemromantic individual may categorize certain relationships as romantic instead of platonic based on age, emotional closeness, presence of sexual attraction, or other factors, but their feelings toward their romantic interests would not be distinguishable from platonic feelings.
Arospike
Someone who usually feels no romantic attraction, but occasionally has rare and sudden spikes of romantic attraction
Bear
A large, hairy gay man. Preforms masculinity for other men
T4T
A trans person interested in other trans people, exclusively or not
Autiboy
A masculine neurogender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic or when one's autism greatly affects one's gender or how one experiences gender.
Quoiromantic
A very broad identity that describes a variety of different experiences, related to confusion or disidentification with romantic attraction. Some quoiromantic experiences include:
-Being unsure what romantic attraction is, and therefore being unsure if one has experienced it or not.
-Finding the concept of romance to be inaccessible, inapplicable, or nonsensical.
-Being unable to understand romantic attraction as a concept or feeling
-Disidentifying with the concept of romantic attraction - either as a social construct or as something potentially applicable to oneself.
-Questioning one's romantic identity for such a long time that the questioning itself becomes the identity, rather than a path toward any other more stable identity.
-Having a difficulty distinguishing romantic attraction from other types of attraction.
Bigender (aporagender + male)
Bigender is having 2 gender identities, simultaneously or fluidly. Aporagender is a gender that isn't male, female, or anything in-between or neutral, but still having a specific gendered feeling. Think of it as, if male was blue, female was pink, genders between/a mix of male and female were purple, and neutral genders were grey, aporagender would be yellow. In this case, I am bigender as in a mix of male and aporagender. Bigender aporagender + male flag made by my friend Emma, made to look like a mix of the 2 flags plus the blue colors for masculinity in the original bigender flag, with the question marks on half of the second version representing the ambiguity of aporagender.
Microlabels
Uncannic
A gender that is slightly off from it's root gender. I don't remember who coined this or where I saw it and what the flag is so if you know please let me know
Fallengender
Fallengender is a xenogender made with fallen angels in mind, that can be described with black and golden undertones, eye imagery, the feeling of feathers either being ripped or falling out, a falling sensation, and adrenaline. It can also be associated with a general longing, lonely, and sickly nostalgic feeling for a place one has never experienced in their current body.
Aroflux
Fluctuating between aromantic and alloromantic or between different aromantic identities
Greyromantic
Both an umbrella term for every aromantic spectrum identity that isn't strictly aromantic, and an individual identity that could mean experiencing romantic attraction very rarely or having an arospec identity that isn't aromantic.
Arovague
An arospec identity either fully or partially influenced by ones neurodivergency
Platoniromantic
Being unable to distinguish between platonic and romantic feelings
Autiaro
A romantic identity on the aromantic spectrum in which one's autistic traits affect one's romantic orientation/lack of romantic attraction. Autiaro is an aromantic identity that is so heavily affected by or influenced by one's autistic traits, to the point where one's aromanticism and one's autism can't be unlinked
Chronosaromantic
Describes someone who takes an extremely long time to experience romantic attraction, usually over multiple months or even years. They also can sometimes “tell” who they will be attracted to in the future
Bannergender
Coined by me! A xenogender that that changes based on emotions, becoming more intense when experiencing intense emotions. For example, a bannergender individual could feel like a demigirl most of the time, but when very emotional, feels more female or agender. In another example, a bannergender individual doesn't have a very strong connection with being male most of the time, but when experiencing a specific emotion, they feel more strongly connected to being male. This gender is a gender modifier, and is made to be used with other gender(s). Named after and flag based on the Marvel character Bruce Banner/The Hulk
Plurisin
A gender that is complicated due to being influenced by being plural
Alloaegic
Someone who is allosexual towards some gender(s), but aegosexual towards other gender(s). Ageosexual is a disconnection between you and a sexual target/object. You may have sexual fantasies or feel aroused from erotica or porn, but lack a desire to be apart of said sexual activities with them and/or don't feel attraction to them. I am allosexual towards men and masculine/neutral/androgynous enbies, but ageosexual towards women and feminine enbies. I believe my aegosexuality towards women/feminine enbies is related to my hypersexuality, but the label applies to me nonetheless.
Holistigender
Holistigender is a gender that, due to deep connection to one’s surroundings and the universe as a whole, is influenced by even small changes in the universe. Inspired by Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency
Diviromantic
Diviromantic individuals feel romantically attracted to someone after a long period of knowing them, but due to their feelings, they convince themselves it is not true, and back out of it. This reason could be due to stress, trauma, insecurity, but it is not limited to that, and can be from anyone.
Just for fun labels
(aka labels that are unnecessary to describe my identity but I still like them)
Acriromantic
An aromantic label where when one feels romantic attraction, it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to them.
Anovelaean
A term for individuals who "collect" aro-spec identities because just a few terms don't accurately describe their identities. They may identify as all of their aro-spec identities simultaneously, or be fluid between them.
Angelfalleen
A gender connected to, related to, or influencer by angels falling from the sky
Duraromantic
Where one rarely experiences romantic attraction, but when one does it lasts for a long time, usually over a year
Doubtromantic
A romantic orientation in which one feels romantic attraction, but after experiencing it, one doubts oneself and questions whether or not one felt romantic attraction or another type of attraction or none at all.
Lovequeer & Lovepunk
Lovequeer: Refers to one fully rejecting the concept of “love” as society applies it for romance, and to redefine the word around oneself
Lovepunk: A term referring to both an identity and an opposition to the societal norms surrounding the concept of love. Lovepunk rejects the norms surrounding gender, attraction, orientation, and relationships, while actively resisting aphobia and the oppression caused by defying these norms.
Nowomasexual
Attraction to all genders (such as male, agender, bigender, etc) except female aligned genders
Noviromantic
A romantic orientation that is too complex to be described in one word.
Questioning
Disakoiromantic
Someone who is disakoiromantic may experience the desire to feel romantic attraction from someone else onto themselves, but are unable to reciprocate it due to only being able to experience a different form of attraction, being romance-repulsed, or being aromantic in general. This does not mean that they cannot be in a relationship with said person(s). Some common experiences include:
-Fantasizing about being in a romantic relationship with someone, but when presented with someone who likes them, are unable to give back those romantic feelings (though they may still feel aesthetic/platonic/physical attraction to them).
-Being unable to reciprocate, or give back, romantic feelings to someone who likes them romantically, even if they try really hard to.
-Feeling only aesthetic, physical, or platonic attraction.
Lingerromantic
Where one experiences little to no romantic attraction but desires it to be in a romantic relationship, but due to trauma, religion, stories, or simply a "gut-feeling", has an unconditional fear of going into a romantic relationship. Yet they seek a romantic relationship with someone who they know they could trust, and could take a long period of time for someone who uses lingerromantic to feel comfortable enough to engage in other romantic attraction labels due to past trauma or stress
Vseromantic/Vserosexual
An orientation that is influenced by ones headmates/alters/system members orientations
Xumromantic
Xumromantic is the state of never being satisfied with ones romantic orientation no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out for something that fits even better -- to find "the orientation" or "the one truth" -- though one will never be found due to a) One's neurotype. b) Words will never be able to describe one's romantic orientation. c) One's romantic orientation is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true orientation" frequent causes doubt and anxiety and can even cause the label xumromantic to feel incorrect to the individual.
Lumerangic
A bright, positive gender that connects heavily to the sun, gold, and angels. This identity resonates with the warm colour palette of the sun, and also with the grace and ethereal nature of angels.
